i get it man. and you'll get there. seriously it's just time and i know that's a shitty answer because you're here now looking for something to make it better but that's all there is. time and effort. that's both of you, not me saying you're not putting in effort.
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that's both of you, not me saying you're not putting in effort.
or that he isn't
bah you know what i mean.